Starting any relationship comes with the excitement and enthusiasm it so deserves. It’s full of all the new things, all the firsts, and that flurry of “Woo”. A working relationship is no different. It is just as exciting. It’s a fresh start with all the unknowns that come along with beginning something new.
A new client is excited just as you are. They are full of energy, excitement, and ideas. They over-communicate and share their BIG ideas and thoughts. This, however, can be short-lived. Just as when that new relationship is no longer “new”. It becomes comfortable and you become relaxed. It also becomes less “work” with no need to keep that energy level high. It becomes everyday life.
Clients do the same thing. They are excited to start working with you, but once it becomes part of that familiar daily routine the urgency and excitement fall off. All of a sudden you don’t hear from them as often. They aren’t as eager to respond to your requests or messages. Or, if really complacent, they will even delete your messages without reading them.
This doesn’t mean they aren’t happy with your work, they have just gotten comfortable with your working relationship.
Driving through the country, have you ever paid attention to the rows of crops?
They are straight, even, consistent. The farmer plants them evenly and tends to them on a steady schedule. They are evenly spaced in neat rows. And, every season the crops are plentiful.
This same care and order are needed in all forms of business. Consistency is more than social media content. Consistency is tending to your clients as the farmer tends the field.
I am proud of the work I do, the skills I have, and how I help others reach their goals.
Getting my business to this point - to where I am comfortable with the skill sets I have and how I can share those with others - has been a journey. It's been self-discovery and confidence building, with technical knowledge and trial and error thrown in for good measure.
As I continue to grow my business and evolve, I further define the work I love to do, that which I can do without, and where my vision and heart live. It's not all about putting in tons and tons of hours each day, but rather fine-tuning my skills to maximize my time and energy. Taking the time for personal development and surrounding myself with like-minded entrepreneurs and soul searchers moves me to work towards new goals and keeps me in the trenches of doing the work.
Sharing the skills important to you and finding a method of sharing that is pertinent to what your intentions are takes work. You need to be clear about your message and what you want someone to take away from your messaging. Taking the time to research your topic(s) and prepare them in a manner educating your audience will lead you to be a credible source of information.
What do you want them to know, feel and do?
What is a Virtual Assistant?
Do you know? Can you explain it? If you say it to someone else and they give you the blank stare, can you clarify it for them?
Wikipedia defines Virtual Assistant as:
What time does band practice start? Where is the next basketball game? When is the next baseball practice? Isn't there a meeting tonight? Wait, don't I have a conference call in 5 minutes? The school just called, Snow Day today! Now, where do the kids go?
Keeping up with the daily activities, work schedule and those last minute 2-hour delays and snow days (here in the Northeast US) is a task made easier as an entrepreneur, a Virtual Assistant. Making a schedule that melds to what the day needs was a game changer for me.